It took me quite a long time to be successful. I'm a tall male (5ft 10in / 245) in my 50's with bad legs. I wear 12-12.5 because I ordered 13. The high arches are killing me and my high instep prevents me from putting my feet in most types of mules and sandals. These mules work. It's a bit pricey but if they last and don't wear 6 months a year I'll be happy.
DREAM PAIRS Liberty M: Lightweight π and Breathable Footwear for Your Active Lifestyle
59 Review
Propet Stability Walker Sneaker Black Men's Shoes in Fashion Sneakers
58 Review
Onitsuka Tiger Mexico Shoes - Men's Grey Sneakers
46 Review
Skechers Afterburn Strike Memory Men's Fashion Sneakers: Stylish Footwear for Every Occasion
45 Review