I have the third set. I hold hands very tightly. Thank goodness they're finally on sale. The Elite controller is expensive. $20 is a better option than a replacement. First, buy thin double-sided tape at Target for $3. The factory uses it to stop them from moving, and you need it. It takes 2 seconds for the grips to be nice and tight like the original. Put two thin pieces of tape between the handle and the body. Works well.