As a pastor, I recently conducted a memorial service for a woman who loved butterflies. I ordered this tie bar to wear for the occasion. He arrived on time. It was well done. During the service I learned that one of the guests had a terminally ill wife. She herself loved butterflies. I gave the clasp to this gentleman in honor of his wife's love of butterflies. Great article. Does what it should. It wasn't big enough to be a distraction, but it was noticed.