First you should look at the size chart. A size X belt will never fit an X+ waist. Regardless of your waist size, add 2 inches to your belt size. Second, the belt is made of thick leather of the highest quality. As with all high quality thick leathers, it will be stiff for a while. Wear it for a month or two and it will soften, stretch a little, darken a little and develop a patina. Good braided belt, especially for the money.