It's definitely good! i love it very much Maybe just a note on color codes in gay culture. If you wear a color that contrasts with the rest of your outfit to a rally (e.g., all black and then just that red harness), people might think you're saying you enjoy a particular sexual act. This is common in the form of a colour-coded handkerchief in the back pocket. Red means you like fisting. So yes. If you wear all black some might think you like fisting, but at the end of the day I think color codes aren't that important these days. Dark blue is for anal sex, so you may want to use this pendant in that color or just black.