I've been using these corsets for about 9 months. They are stiff enough that the collar doesn't fold, but flexible enough not to pierce my neck or collarbone. The 4 length options fit whatever collar length I have and allows for a shorter stance when I don't want the collar to be too stiff. They tolerate travel and daily abuse well.
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