Okay, let's go. We had what we thought was a fairly aggressive cat. But after some reading we realized he was just energetic and bored and the toys and the way we played with him didn't. So we bought these gloves and started wrestling him and the viola! Now he's the most affectionate cat we've ever had! He burns off all his pent up energy fighting with gloves and he knows the difference between gloves and hands so he doesn't attack hands so the rest of the time he's just a cute happy cat! Full disclosure, we also started giving him lots of good behavior treats which helped a lot too. We found that out through research.