Review on Lerobo 3 Pack Soft Silicone Sport Bands for Apple Watch SE Series 7—Compatible with 42mm/44mm/45mm Size—Breathable & Comfortable Replacement Straps for Men and Women by Sean Maples

So these bags are exactly what you are looking for. I bought 9 different tapes. They are soft and have a lot more points to adjust the strap properly. The extra strap is then snapped in like the original strap that came with the watch. BUT it has a buckle! So much more convenient. So far, after wearing it for a few weeks, it shows no signs of wear or damage (I wear it to work and it keeps snagging). 10/10 just wish they had more color and such.