ETA: He uses the tactics described in this book, in particular he prefers to be held when angry. He's almost 4 1/2 now and still pulling out the book. I would highly recommend this book to anyone who reads it, but I often recommend it to other parents/teachers etc. I think this book is fantastic! I wanted a book that would really help my child deal with relapse and emotional regulation. This book is perfect for that! He has attention issues, he's a little late, and for a 3 1/2 year old thisβ¦